Everything you need to know before starting the Yes · No · Maybe experience.
Are my answers visible to my partner?
No. Individual answers are never shown. You only see what you share.
What happens if one of us says “No”?
If either person says “No”, the question does not appear anywhere in the results. It simply disappears.
What does “Maybe” mean?
“Maybe” marks a space for exploration, not a commitment. A question appears there only if no one said “No” and at least one of you said “Maybe”.
Do we have to answer at the same time?
No. Each person answers separately, on their own device, at their own pace.
How are “paired” desires (like dominating / being dominated) evaluated?
For some desires, we don’t require you to have answered the exact same thing. We look for compatible dynamics instead. For example, if one of you wants to dominate and the other wants to be dominated, it will appear as a shared desire, even if you didn’t select the same card. If there’s a “maybe” involved, the desire will show up in “explore at your own pace”.
Do we need an account?
No. No accounts, no profiles, no required sign-up.
What is the Sanctuary?
The Sanctuary is a private space for your couple. It brings together your shared desires and ideas to explore, with questions to guide you before, during, and after each experience. No individual answers are shown, only what you have in common.
How can we come back to it later?
Your Sanctuary is available through a unique URL. Save this link, it’s personal and lets you come back anytime.
Does it work for throuples or non-monogamous relationships?
Not yet. For now, Yes · No · Maybe is designed for two people. A version adapted to multi-partner relationships is planned for later.