Yes · No · Maybe

Explore your desires, together

A private game for couples to talk about desire, boundaries, and consent, gently.

Private·Free·At your own pace

Used by thousands of couples worldwide

How it works

Answer privately

Each partner answers separately with yes, no, or maybe.

Only shared desires appear

At the end, only what you both agree on is revealed in your Sanctuary.

Talk about it when you want

Or not. Reading is enough.
Come back anytime, sort it, and explore at your pace.

Your shared desires,

to read and explore at your own pace.

Yes No Maybe Sanctuary interface showing a couple's shared desires

A safe space to discover what you have in common

For whom?

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Couples of long-term relationships

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New relationships

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Curious but cautious couples

There's nothing to succeed at.
Just things to understand.

Why it's different

No challenges

No pressure

No obligations

A clear frame

Emotional safety

Conversations are possible, never imposed

What couples say

It helped us talk without feeling like we had to do anything right away.

Claire, 34

Even just reading together opened conversations we had never had.

Thomas, 38

I liked that nothing was pushed. We went at our own pace.

Maya, 29

It created a safe space. No awkward moments, no pressure.

Julien, 41

We didn't realize how much we had in common until we tried it.

Sophie, 36

We skipped a few questions.
We picked what resonated, and left the rest.

Camille, 32

Questions you might have

We understand you might need reassurance

Yes. All your answers stay on your device. Nothing is sent to a server without your explicit consent. Your partner only sees desires that match.
That's completely okay. The goal isn't to match everything—it's to understand each other better. Even discovering differences can open valuable conversations.
Not at all. There's no obligation to do anything. You can simply read together, or talk about it later. The pace is entirely yours.
The questions are direct but respectful. Nothing is gratuitous or vulgar. Everything is designed to facilitate honest conversations, not to shock.
Absolutely. You can pause, or stop completely whenever you want. There are no consequences for not finishing.

Yes · No · Maybe is often used as a starting point for intimate conversations, even when talking about sexuality, boundaries or desires feels difficult.

Ready to explore without pressure?

Free·Private·No account required