Resources to talk about desire, boundaries, and consent

The goal is not to tell you what to do, but to offer clear reference points.

Here you'll find resources to talk about desire, set boundaries, negotiate consent, and explore at your own pace.

Short, practical guides to move forward without jargon or pressure.

If you're feeling unsure about where to start

When it comes to intimate topics, the hardest part is often knowing how to begin. These first resources provide a simple, reassuring starting point, without pressure.

To understand what you're feeling and name it

Some conversations become easier once we share a common language. These resources help clarify concepts and dynamics, without offering rigid formulas.

When something feels hard to say

It can be difficult to name limits, desire, or uncertainty. These pages are here to make that part a little clearer and less isolating.

Exploring at your own pace

Exploring does not mean going faster or doing more. These resources offer flexible frameworks to reflect, discuss, or gently experiment together.

If you want a concrete structure to talk

Some people prefer reading, others need a concrete structure to start talking. These pages introduce the Yes · No · Maybe tool and how couples use it in practice. After reading and reflecting, some people prefer a structured framework to help move the conversation forward.

Sources and inspirations

The resources shared here are inspired by existing approaches to communication, consent, and respectful intimacy.