Talking about sexual desires can be difficult, even in a loving relationship. Many couples lack the words or structure to approach this calmly. The Yes/No/Maybe method is recommended by sex therapists and educators to open these conversations without pressure or judgment.
Yes · No · Maybe adapts this method into a private, interactive experience: each person answers separately, at their own pace, and only shared desires appear. No individual answers are visible.
Why use a Yes/No/Maybe list as a couple
A Yes/No/Maybe list covers activities, fantasies, situations, or preferences. Each person marks every item as Yes, Maybe, or No. This approach helps reduce anxiety during intimate conversations because it sets a clear frame before you even talk.
A list does not replace a discussion, but it structures it with care. It highlights shared desires and areas of curiosity, which makes the conversation feel safer.
How Yes No Maybe makes communication easier
The format protects each person’s freedom: you answer separately, without immediate pressure. Results show only what you share, which avoids direct comparison and supports trust.
That separation makes the discussion simpler: you start from common ground and can ask open questions to explore “Maybe” answers.
Yes No Maybe online vs. paper
Paper lists are still useful, but a private interactive version has clear advantages: separate answers, automatically filtered results, and the ability to revisit desires over time.
You get a clear view of shared desires without exposing individual answers.
Who this method is for
For any couple who wants to understand each other better, whether you have been together for years or are just starting out. It also suits couples who want to clarify boundaries, refresh intimate communication, or explore curiosity gently.
The key is to respect each person’s pace and use the list as a starting point for a respectful conversation.
Related questions
- How do you introduce Yes No Maybe without pressure?
- What if one partner answers “no” to most items?
- How do you move from “maybe” to a real experience?
- How often should couples play the game again?
FAQ — Yes No Maybe for couples
Is Yes No Maybe suitable for all couples?
Yes, as long as the conversation is respectful and consent-based. The game adapts to your pace.
Do you need to be very comfortable to play?
Not necessarily. The format helps put simple words on desires without pressure or obligation.
How do you handle different desires?
The goal isn’t to agree on everything, but to clarify what is yes, no, or maybe, and open a dialogue.
Can the game be used to talk about boundaries?
Yes, that’s one of its benefits. “No” and “maybe” answers help set a clear framework.