Yes · No · Maybe isn’t meant to be a one-size-fits-all solution. It’s designed for people who want to communicate about desire more clearly, without pressure, performance, or awkward conversations.
If one of the profiles below sounds familiar, the tool was likely built with you in mind.
Long-term couples
Desire changes over time. In long-term relationships, it’s common for wants and curiosities to shift, fade, or feel harder to express.
- Reopen conversations safely.
- Express curiosity without expectations.
- Separate fantasy from actual desire.
A clear framework makes it easier to speak honestly without pressure.
Sex-positive and curious couples
If you’re already comfortable talking about sex, Yes · No · Maybe gives you structure.
- Enjoy exploring new dynamics.
- Want clearer boundaries.
- Value negotiation before experiences.
The Yes / No / Maybe framework maps desire without locking it in, and the Sanctuary lets you revisit shared interests over time.
Open and non-monogamous relationships
Open relationships require constant communication, and those conversations can become emotionally loaded or overly theoretical.
- Clarify what’s shared, allowed, or off-limits.
- Discuss desire without blame or justification.
- Focus only on compatible interests.
For more context, explore polyamory and non-normative sexualities.
People who are private or shy when speaking
Some people know what they feel but struggle to say it out loud. Fear of judgment, awkwardness, or not finding the right words can block communication.
- Answers are given privately.
- No explanations required.
- No individual responses ever shown.
The tool acts as a quiet mediator. Start with Yes · No · Maybe for couples.
Who this tool is not for (yet)
Yes · No · Maybe is not designed for:
- Groups larger than two people (for now).
- Situations without clear consent.
- Replacing real conversation or professional support.
It’s a starting point, not a replacement. For consent basics, read a simple rule: no pressure, and an easy right to say no.
What if you don’t fit any category?
You don’t need to fit a label to use Yes · No · Maybe. If you want a calmer, clearer way to explore desire together, the tool may still be right for you.
👉 Start anytime and see how it feels.
FAQ
Is it right if we’re not a couple?
Yes, as long as you are two people who want clarity together. The tool is not built for groups.
Do we have to say everything out loud?
No. Answers are given privately and only shared desires appear, which reduces pressure.
Does it replace therapy?
No. Yes · No · Maybe is a conversation tool, not a substitute for professional support.
Next steps
Explore Yes · No · Maybe at your own pace.